Any beautiful woman you have ever wanted is within your grasp.  It’s much easier than you might think.  In fact this specific technique has been taught in How To Date Beautiful Women programs everywhere and cost hundreds of dollars!  You are about to learn the technique for absolutely nothing!

Watch the Woman and Learn

You wouldn’t go into battle without analyzing your opponent first would you?  Pay attention to the lady you are eyeing.  See what she likes.  If you are in a bar for example, see what kind of drink she is drinking, and what kind of music she has been hitting the dance floor to.

Making the Initial Connection

Possibly one of the most powerful expressions of sexual passion for someone is eye contact.  Direct eye contact, staring right into her eyes, creates sexual tension between you and the beautiful woman that cannot be ignored.  Her pupils will start to dilate, her heart will start pounding harder and harder, and her body will start to prepare to give off her sexual pheromones. This is quite possibly the most important tip I can give you to up your chances in getting a date with the woman of your dreams.  Notice how people that are insecure can’t look into women’s eyes, they quickly look away and shy away.  It’s the confident men that are able to look into women’s eyes.

If you are the one starting the eye contact, just keep staring into her eyes, until she notices you.  She will feel that someone is looking at her.  At some point, she will look in your direction, see you, and look at your eyes.  This is a critical point.  Whatever you do, do not look away.  This is the number one mistake many men make.  This will tell the women

“What a creep, why does he keep looking at me when I am not watching.” or

“Wow that guys is shy and insecure”

Instead, once you get “caught”, move into a mode of pretending that you didn’t even notice she noticed you.  Act as if you are lost in her eyes.  Next, smile at her when you do “notice” that she has noticed you.  Maintain eye contact for a few more seconds, and then look away slowly.

Walking up to the Woman

Now the fun begins!  A bout a minute or two after connecting with your eyes, start walking over to the woman.  A great opening line will be revealed in an upcoming post entitled “The Greatest Opening Lines to Get Any Woman”.  Once you have started the conversation, make sure you have your best smiles ready to go, and that you keep the eye contact on her about 80% of the time.  Give her some time without you looking so she can look at you while she thinks your not watching.  It will actually make her body want you to look at her even more.  This switching back and forth, 80/20 rule is amazingly powerful as it keeps building the relationship and her bodies feelings towards you.

Keep the Conversation Going

Make sure during the conversation that you ask a lot of open ended questions.  In contrast to popular belief, your goal is to get the woman to talk as much as possible, not for you to do all the talking.  Ask her questions that start with “Have you ever been too…”  “What was it like to experience…”.  Once she is done talking, confirm that you were listening by saying things like “I totally get that, I remember a similar time when I…”.  The key is not to talk to much, just enough to affirm to her that you are listening to her, and enough for you to tell her small bits about yourself that relate to her.

Know when to hold em, Know when to fold em

At this point you should be thrilled.  You have walked up to a beautiful woman, started a conversation, and it’s gone very well!  If you have followed all the steps, you should now have a beautiful woman on your hands that is genuinely interested in you.  Do you continue and ask her to dance, buy her a drink, or do you walk away while you’re ahead.  As the song says, you gota know when to hold em, know when to fold em.  If you are extremely skilled, you should know exactly what to do, and could possibly score tonight!  However, if you are new to the while dating game, this is a great time to walk away.  Make an excuse and say you have to get going.  This is the best possible way to ensure that she stays interested in you.