So I’m sorry to disappoint you guys, but unless you start reading this blog religiously, you are going to be stuck with your hands for the rest of your lives checking out naked pictures of women you are never going to bang!  So start paying attention and start banging hot chicks today!  Ok enough of the sales pitch… Here are a few tips on how you can get women to want you, and if you follow these steps I guarantee that she’ll want to do more then just talk at the end of the date

Adjust your game to fit the woman

You’re not going to behave, or rather you shouldn’t behave the same with a lawyer versus a waitress. They’re going to have different tastes and different expectations. When you’re about to hook up for a date, ask her what types of things she likes and DO THEM. Don’t let the profession scare you… high power chicks are wild in bed. 

Body Language, Posture, etc…

When you are out with a woman, stand up tall… yes that’s right your mom was right. Standing up tall will make you appear taller, more confidant and more fit. Your body language is a huge indicator of your intentions but you’ve got to be able to read hers. If she’s crossing her arms, turning away or backing away from you, chances are you’ve pissed her off or she’s not interested… move on. If she’s leaning into you touch her shoulder, and nod your head like you actually are interested in what she’s saying. This leads to my next point.

ASK QUESTIONS

I can’t tell you how important this is. If she asks you a question, ASK her the same one back. Honestly this is the easiest one to do and the one guys fuck up all the time! This takes the guess work out of what to say to her, clearly she’s interested in this particular thing about you… so you showing the same interest will make it look like you actually care what College she went to or if she has pets.

Compliment something about her

Guys, this is another simple one. Tell her how hot she looks in those boots. Don’t tell her you want to her to keep those on and lose the rest but women spend HOURS preparing to hook up with you. Tell her how hot she looks, and try to sound like you mean it.

Open the Damn door and grab the check

You know there was a big fad years back of chicks wanting to be independent by opening their own doors and paying for dinner. But honestly guys, those women aren’t going to jump you on the first day anyways. People say chivalry is dead, prove her otherwise. She’ll think she’s found the last nice guy, and be more open to letting you open her bedroom door. And for gods sake, don’t let her pay for dinner!

The bottom line is you need to assess the situation at hand. Paying for dinner and complimenting her seem like trivial things but trust me they work. Make sure you shower before a date (I shouldn’t have to say it but I did), get some gum and put on CLEAN clothes. And for god’s sake when you’re talking to her, bring up her favorite subject… herself, you’ll look like you’re interested in her and you won’t have to talk about yourself!

1. Get ready for dating. If you really want to pound away in the dating game, decide what kind of woman you want, research the woman, and commit to getting the woman you want!  Seriously, I have some awesome tips here if you want to know what to do before you get ready for the date.

2. Get your act together. Begin a plan of looking your best all the time. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your long shaggy hair cut or styled and begin a new plan of looking awesome!  Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself.

3. Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don’t go overboard and look like someone you are not but maybe its time to throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. People appreciate appearance.

4. Have a good think about what your dating goals are and timescales. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don’t take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.

5. Sort out your confidence levels in advance. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Do all the things that will boost your confidence from avoiding negative friends (often the married ones) to attending the right kind of social functions. Couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.

6. Choose those you have a good chance of dating, don’t aim low but do aim realistically. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you are looking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous then good for you, but be prepared and be realistic about your chances.

7. Work out in advance where in your neighborhood you are likely to meet people and join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups, anything where you are likely to meet potential partners. The kind of partners you are looking for. I know its a cliché but you will not meet people by staying indoors.

8. Take time off from dating occasionally if its not going well or causing dating fatigue. Dating is an ongoing process and so recharging the batteries and keeping the confidence and optimism levels high is an absolute must. So date in phases if necessary.

9. Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting people and socializing and spending time in the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not bring you a sparkle. The fact is, most people are interesting and whilst you may not be out there looking for new friends, you may well find one or two fabulous people along the way.

10. Never ever make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. In keeping with this do not sleep with your dates early on if you want them to progress, so keep sex until later. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. Peak too early and you have little left to offer and emotions may never have had the time to develop.

Watch the Woman and Learn

You wouldn’t go into battle without analyzing your opponent first would you?  Pay attention to the lady you are eyeing.  See what she likes.  If you are in a bar for example, see what kind of drink she is drinking, and what kind of music she has been hitting the dance floor to.

Making the Initial Connection

Possibly one of the most powerful expressions of sexual passion for someone is eye contact.  Direct eye contact, staring right into her eyes, creates sexual tension between you and the beautiful woman that cannot be ignored.  Her pupils will start to dilate, her heart will start pounding harder and harder, and her body will start to prepare to give off her sexual pheromones. This is quite possibly the most important tip I can give you to up your chances in getting a date with the woman of your dreams.  Notice how people that are insecure can’t look into women’s eyes, they quickly look away and shy away.  It’s the confident men that are able to look into women’s eyes.

If you are the one starting the eye contact, just keep staring into her eyes, until she notices you.  She will feel that someone is looking at her.  At some point, she will look in your direction, see you, and look at your eyes.  This is a critical point.  Whatever you do, do not look away.  This is the number one mistake many men make.  This will tell the women

“What a creep, why does he keep looking at me when I am not watching.” or

“Wow that guys is shy and insecure”

Instead, once you get “caught”, move into a mode of pretending that you didn’t even notice she noticed you.  Act as if you are lost in her eyes.  Next, smile at her when you do “notice” that she has noticed you.  Maintain eye contact for a few more seconds, and then look away slowly.

Walking up to the Woman

Now the fun begins!  A bout a minute or two after connecting with your eyes, start walking over to the woman.  A great opening line will be revealed in an upcoming post entitled “The Greatest Opening Lines to Get Any Woman”.  Once you have started the conversation, make sure you have your best smiles ready to go, and that you keep the eye contact on her about 80% of the time.  Give her some time without you looking so she can look at you while she thinks your not watching.  It will actually make her body want you to look at her even more.  This switching back and forth, 80/20 rule is amazingly powerful as it keeps building the relationship and her bodies feelings towards you.

Keep the Conversation Going

Make sure during the conversation that you ask a lot of open ended questions.  In contrast to popular belief, your goal is to get the woman to talk as much as possible, not for you to do all the talking.  Ask her questions that start with “Have you ever been too…”  “What was it like to experience…”.  Once she is done talking, confirm that you were listening by saying things like “I totally get that, I remember a similar time when I…”.  The key is not to talk to much, just enough to affirm to her that you are listening to her, and enough for you to tell her small bits about yourself that relate to her.

Know when to hold em, Know when to fold em

At this point you should be thrilled.  You have walked up to a beautiful woman, started a conversation, and it’s gone very well!  If you have followed all the steps, you should now have a beautiful woman on your hands that is genuinely interested in you.  Do you continue and ask her to dance, buy her a drink, or do you walk away while you’re ahead.  As the song says, you gota know when to hold em, know when to fold em.  If you are extremely skilled, you should know exactly what to do, and could possibly score tonight!  However, if you are new to the while dating game, this is a great time to walk away.  Make an excuse and say you have to get going.  This is the best possible way to ensure that she stays interested in you.

Do you see the bombshell on your left?  That is the woman that is getting ready for you, and it’s up to you to make sure you make time to get ready for her.  If you follow these 6 steps, you will be an extremely happy man at the end of the date.

1. Learn as much as possible about the girl before the date
   I’m not talking about stalking someone, that’s just freaky and dumb.  What you do need to do is pick up on anything she’s talked to you about already.  What was she warring when you asked her out?  What kind of music does she like?  What kind of friends does she hang out with?  What are her favorite movies?  Not only will you be extremely well prepared when you go on the date, but you will also be able to show her subconsciously that you pay attention, something every woman wants.
2. Go shopping and treat yourself to some nice clothes
   Chances are that turtle neck your mom gave you is not going to get you any brownie points with the ladies.  Get your image right!  Using step one, you should have a pretty good idea of what she likes to see on men.  Case and point, you don’t want to show up in a suit and tie to go on a date with a skater girl.  However in the same vain you don’t want to show up in ripped jeans, and a hood top that says “SK8T 4 LIFE” on the back if your meeting a successful business woman.
3. Groom yourself for success
   This should go without saying, but make sure you clean yourself up before the date!  What does this mean?  Shower, if possible take a bath, and then shower.  It will get you extremely clean.  Use some nice body lotion after your shower.  Are you saying “You’ve got to be kidding me!”, well if you want to attract her with your sandpaper body, be my guest and don’t listen.  Before you leave the bathroom, make sure you trim your nose hairs if you have any (you probably do, and they aren’t cute).  I always recommend clean shaven, but if you aren’t, make sure you at least trim and keep it under control so you look like you have made effort.  Oh ya and don’t forget, get a haircut!
4. Create a detailed game plan for the first 5 minutes
   Trust me, the first 5 minutes of your date basically decide the entire course of your evening.  Granted it can be salvaged with a lot of skill, but do yourself a favor and don’t put yourself in the hole in the first 5 minutes!  No girl wants to get in your car (you better have a car, if you don’t, I’ll tell you how to get one in an hour later) and ask “So what are we doing?” and have you answer “I dunno, what do you wanna do?”.  Date is over my friend, turn around, do her a favour, and take her home.  Go rent a nice movie and buy some popcorn and start reading this blog all over again.  Clearly you don’t deserve women in your life.  Again based on what you know about her, make sure you incorporate things she likes into the date. 

   Here is a small example.  Let’s say she loves Starbucks and you met her at a Starbucks.  A prefect start to the evening would be “Hey I was going to grab a coffee on the way here, but I thought we could just swing by Starbucks and grab one together, you like the Verona Latte right?”.  Bang you are so in!  I will go into more details in a later post entitled “Dominating the first 5 minutes of the date”.

5. Create a flexible game plan for the rest of the date
   So now you have her attention and the rest of the date is upon you.  Now what?  It’s yours for the taking baby!  But once again, make sure you have a plan.  It depends on the woman your taking out but as an example, you could then say “I’ve made reservations at <TRENDY RESTAURANT> for 6:30pm, I love the <GREAT DISH SHE WILL ALSO LIKE>, have you tried it?”.  At this point she might ask what you are doing after the date, or during the dinner.  Make sure you have something ready to go.  Sometimes it’s not a bad idea to have multiple things setup, and depending on how the dinner goes, you can change the “plan” accordingly.  I would strongly suggest you stay away from the “Movie” thing, as movies tend to basically lose 2 hours from your short time with the woman you want to be with.  The key to a successful first date will be shared later, but being at a movie blows your chances quickly.
6. Build your confidence levels in advance
   All these rules are golden, but this one is possibly the most important one.  Beautiful women love confident men.  Correction.  All women fall all over confident men.  Who wants an indecisive, low self esteem guy that doesn’t believe in himself?  Boost your confidence levels through the roof before you show up to the date.  If you show up to the date thinking “I’m going to be confident” and you just aren’t in that mindset, you are so screwed.  Get yourself into super confidence mode.  Again I will share more details in a future post, but here are the basics.

   What are you really good at?  Are you great at working out?  Make sure you go to the gym and pump some serious iron before your date.  Are you a great pianist or guitar player (yes guitar hero counts), then get on that instrument Johnny boy and wale away!  Doing things you are great at, is really the only way to build up your confidence.

So there you have it.  You now have a powerful set of tools to make sure your first date goes phenomenally well.  You have learned to get prepared before the date by learning as much as possible about the beautiful woman. You know you have to go out and get a nice set of clothes, and give yourself a good bath.  Finally you have learned that you need to create a fantastic plan, and execute that plan with complete confidence.

Have you ever felt like you just couldn’t take your eyes of a girl, and wondering what the best way is to tell her you like her?  Simple.  Don’t tell her.  You are probably wondering why on earth I would suggest not being straight forward with your feelings. I tell you right now, as much as you think the woman you want is the most beautiful girl you have ever met, you must not tell her what you are thinking!  She will not hear what you are saying, and instead, hear it in a different way!

Beautiful women are used to being chased, and asked out.  Trust me they are also used to saying no, and “oh you’re so sweet but I’m already seeing someone”.  The second you open your mouth and tell her your feelings, game over, stop reading this blog, and you might want to go rent a good movie at Blockbuster, or go buy yourself an Xbox, because that’s all you’re going to be doing for a while, playing with yourself.  There is a simple golden rule that you must learn right now, and never forget!  Are you ready?  This is a very simple concept, and a golden rule you should never forget!

Women like suspense, passion, mystery, sexual tension.  Once you admit your feelings, many of these emotions are gone.  The women will start to think things like “Oh, he admits he likes me, which gives me all the power because I haven’t said anything, and now, I don’t really like him that much anymore”.

Beautiful women everywhere live by this rule.  Every woman out there loves drama, passion, suspense.  Why do you think they spend hours watching soap operas, buying romance novels, and having long phone calls with their girlfriends.

So what do I do then?

All is not lost with women, in fact, following this rule gives you a huge upper hand over the millions of idiots out there that are writing letters to the women they secretly like.  What you have to do, is show the woman how you feel, and make her want you, and feel the suspense and passion between you.  There are many ways in which you can convince her to want you, and we will get into them over the course of the next several articles, however, this is the starting point to everything.  You must never admit your feelings in words.  Instead, setup the game to make that beautiful woman fall for you, and once she is completely crazy for you, you won’t need to say anything!

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